Guardian angel's wife Esther Musila gives advice to women days after getting married

Musila posted a video of her wedding day on Instagram on Sunday, alongside a long poetic message addressed to women.

The mother of three went on to define who a happy woman is, where she wrote, the happiest women are not married and neither are they single.

Musila further stated that happy women do not play the victims but rather move past their anger and choose happiness.

“The happiest women today are not the married ones. They're not the single ones. They're not the ones with stable careers and good incomes. The happiest women are the ones who made a choice to love themselves wholly and truly. Women who chose to leave the past behind worked on their self-esteem and put a high price tag on their self-esteem.”

”They stopped playing victims. They stopped whining in self-pity and dining in pity parties. They moved past their anger, tears and bitterness. They realized that happiness is a personal choice and responsibility. They chose to be defined by their present, but not their bitter pasts.” Wrote Musila.

Musila added that happy women do not need to throw shade on anyone in order to shine. 

“They are happy because they don't need validation from anyone. They are happy because they know that they don't need to throw shade on anyone for them to shine. They are happy because they chose to be Queens, to the ladies in the house…”

Musila got married to gospel artist Guardian Angel on Tuesday 4 after a long-term relationship.